Getting a french “Titre De Sejour!”



As I’ve mentioned before, transitioning to a new country is not an easy task. Besides the fact that you must get accustomed to entire an new lifestyle, culture and all that comes with it.. there is an intense paper work process that you must endure in order to have rights to stay in France permanently. Although this post is strictly related to my experience applying for the titre de sejour in France it is possible that other countries or when applying for other visas..they might have similar policies and steps to getting a residence permit/Carte de sejour as well!

I’ve gotten this question a lot.. most people think since my husband is french that I am automatically awarded the rights to live, work and stay here in France but that is far from the truth. While being married to a french man does make the process a bit easier,  it doesn’t stop me from having to do the same steps as everyone else transitioning to France from another country and to be honest it’s not fun.. AT ALL! 

What is a carte de sejour?

It is a document issued by the French prefectures that authorizes an alien to reside on French territory without the cover of a visa:

Non-French, non-EU and non-EEA nationals that have family ties with a French resident can apply for this type of residence permit, under some certain conditions. The card is valid for a year and is renewable, and allows its holder to work. 

Coming to France in March 2017, I had a one year long stay visitor visa…


about 3 months before the expire date I began collecting the necessary paper work to apply for my carte de sejour.

My first advice is to gather all of your paperwork as soon as possible, but the tricky part to this is, is that a few of the documents need to be recent so be sure to pay close attention to the list that follows.

What you need:

  • Bring your visa 
  • Passport 
  • Birth Certificate 
  • Extrait d’acte de mariage: (This is your marriage certificate- but more of a summary of all of the details of your marriage provided officially by the mairie. You can go to your mairie/prefecture and ask for this)
  • If you have children- Extraite d’acte de naissance
  • Proof of living together (Apartment or house lease, Electric bill, Proof of shared Bank account, my advice is to just bring and have as much proof as possible- also make sure there is at least 6 months of proof.)
  • Proof of address less than 3 months old (Electric bill, phone bill, lease, taxes.. )
  • 3 passport photos 
  • A notarized statement proving that you are not in any other marriages if you come from somewhere where it is legal. 
  • Note- All of the paperwork that is not french must be officially translated by an official translator. (This process is nothing crazy you just have to browse online for an official translator in your area and email them what you need.)
  • 269 euros worth of timbres fiscaux – french post stamps  (These are like stamps, you can purchase them at a tobacco store or possibly the post office) 

Once you have all the proper paper work, make sure you triple check! You really don’t want to be unprepared.. you’ll understand why soon. As soon as you have everything all sorted out you can begin your application process two months before your visa will expire. 


I normally have to handle all my prefecture paper work in a city near Paris…

Orleans Prefecture
Orleans prefecture

In addition to the list above.. I recommend bringing 2 to 3 copies of each document when you go to the prefecture. They will expect this. 

My experience: The boring part… 

Just a little disclaimer: this is my personal experience at the Palaiseau Prefecture near Paris. Every prefecture is different so I would still recommend to do your own research on the prefecture you must go to.

The prefecture is open from 9-4pm as stated on the internet and on the doors of the prefecture. HOWEVER.. The time allotted to apply for any type of visas/cards is solely from 9am until 12. It is not open Wednesday’s and there are no appointments allowed any day of the week. 

I went to the prefecture a total of 4 times.. the first time my husband and I went having no idea what we were in for, we knew the prefecture opened at 9am so we showed up around 9:30 grabbed a ticket, and sat and waited for about 3 and a half hours until we realized they stopped taking people regarding our matter at 12.. no one told us anything.

We quickly learned that if I was going to be able to be seen before 12pm I was going to need to arrive earlier in order to grab an early ticket. The next time I went, I arrived at the prefecture at about 7am hoping that this would be early enough, I was wrong.. when I arrived at 7am there was already a LONG line.. I ended up being around number 70 and by the time they called number 50 it was already 12pm. Another wasted day!

 I finally got lucky, I arrived at the prefecture at around 4am..yes 4am! and again there were already about 10 people in line. I was number 17.. after waiting for 4 hours outside in the cold (they really don’t let you in until it’s exactly 9:00) I was called to the window at about 10:15am.

Once I got to the window, I handed in all my necessary paperwork and was   then given a second ticket so I could sit down with someone at a separate window who would help me get the process started. I could only hope that again, I would be called by 12pm. PHEW


I was called at about 11:30am I just made it!

When sitting down with the woman at the window she was not the friendliest and asked A LOT of questions.. also be mindful, they will speak to you in french so try your best to do so as well. This specific day I ended up going alone to the prefecture because my husband wasn’t available. 

Once the appointment was completed it seemed as if everything was in order and I was all set. Unfortunately due to my husband not being there there was still a form missing that needed his signature. The woman then advised me to return back to the prefecture with him to finish the process and the singing of papers. No appointment. 😦

The following week, I returned to the prefecture with my husband at 4am..

After a grueling 4 hours of taking turns waiting outside in the cold we were in and out of the prefecture with my rècèpissè in hand! 

My guess is that prefectures in smaller cities are a little easier to deal with! 

What is a rècèpissè?

The rècèpissè is what you are given once you have finished and successfully applied for your carte de sejour. You can use the rècèpissè to travel, work and do anything a carte de sejour allows you to do while waiting for your official card to arrive. Be careful, it is only valid for 3 months. If you still have not received your card within the 3 months you must apply for another rècèpissè.

Getting your official Carte de Sejour:

It turns out my card was available 1 month after leaving the prefecture but I had no idea. I didn’t receive mail or phone call regarding its arrival. It wasn’t until I realized that my rècèpissè was no longer valid that I got worried and called the prefecture to ask when I should expect it.. they politely told me “oh it’s been here for 5 months” ok.. thanks!

After this it got a bit easier.. 

Depending on if you received mail or a phone call letting you know your official Carte is ready for pick up you can go to your prefecture at your scheduled time or just walk in. I recommend calling your prefecture first to verify what are the available times to come for pick up without an appointment. Make sure you bring your rècèpissè with you as well as your 269 euros worth of stamps AND any other documents and identification..just in case! 

Voila ~ There it is! 



Here is the official website where you can find some more information if needed! 

Official website- more information

My husband and I had a hard time figuring everything out on our own, It’s really hard to get answers especially with everyones case being different. 

Feel free to leave a comment below if you have any questions! I’d love to try to help anyone in a similar situation!

As always, thanks for reading! 

xx Shalize 



3 thoughts on “Getting a french “Titre De Sejour!”

  1. Hello Shalize,
    Thank you so much for your article. I’m Indonesian. My boyfriend and I will submit documents for marriage in France soon. As I never lived in France before, I did tourist visa only earlier, I wanted to know the process takes to finally get Carte de Sejour. I know that I have to apply Visa for Marriage which is up to 3 months. Than I have to comeback to Indonesia to apply Visa for A Spouse. After I have it, can I directly apply for Carte de Sejour? Since my future husband will need my support as well for monthly expanses, how long does it takes for me to be able to apply for Carte de Sejour?
    Your respond will be totally appreciated.


    1. Hi Juju! Thank you for your comment!!

      I’m no expert, but I will try to answer your question!

      I had a long stay visitor visa that lasted a year. Which is the visa I had while getting married. 2 months before the expiration date of the long stay visa I applied for the CDS with all of the proper documents. For me, the CDS process was a bit difficult and it required me to go to the office a few times to make sure I had all the proper paper work. I talk about it more in this video if you would like to watch…

      I wish I could be more helpful but all I can do is share my experience! It’s just a confusing subject but I hope this helps you a little bit!

      Thank you for your comment and Goodluck with your new venture!

      Xx Shalize


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